Women I know get married, and change
their profile photos
to one with their spouse

Women I know have babies, and change again
to pictures holding their new
red, wrinkled accessories
except for the ones who change

into a picture of only a baby
like the guy with the fish and boat shoes
but it’s just the fish

as if no one but me will wonder
where did she go?

I change my profile picture from one of myself
to one of myself

The answer to your question is literal sometimes:
I’m trying to keep myself in the frame.